thisclose to getting smacked
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Why have a mood icon, when my mood is right in the title. Our section of the department has changed office space. We went from our own offices, to shared space. It's a bad idea all around, and we all know it.
Yesterday was the day we were packed up and moved upstairs. And yesterday all hell broke loose. People snapping, rolling eyes...oh I literally had to bite my tongue from telling someone to watch how she spoke to me, because it was that close to being on. Now this is someone who has snappy days when she's stressed anyway, and I know that moves are stressful, so I was trying to let it go. But to no avail.
So today we had a meeting, and I tried tp spend most of it saying nothing, because the point of the meeting was to move along and work from now. But didn't go that way. People started talking about what happened, and yes that includes me. We all apologized, and what do we get...one person talking about how no one but her apologized. This is after she almost walked out on the meeting, then moved her chair away from us offending parties (since when are we 3 years old?), and told someone to just get out like it was her office. Everyone is making her the bad guy...when we didn't say such, but if she felt that way, then maybe everyone can't be wrong. No one appreciates what other people do, blah blah. Fine, I'll do things the way you want, such and such wasn't my intention...no not good enough. Meanwhile, she leaves, and I put on a smiley face to help someone who came to see her (which by the way I do a lot given she's been known to come in late, and yes, she gets busy so I try to help her out). But no one is respectful to what we do.
I'm not perfect, I know it. She helps me, she does. But I know it and I say it. She will apologize, but sometimes in the same breath turn around and talk about how she isn't the only one who does it. It's such a backhanded crappy thing to do. And I am done with this shit. If apologizing doesn't work, if talking just brings more snap, then I have nothing to say or else it's going to be on. I'm not taking this crap.
~~joeyfan3~~
Posted by joeyfan3
at 8:38 AM